Newton's Third Law of Motion

how many of us actually can deliver according to his third law, action == reaction?

i doubt..

many a times, human took things for granted, taken things as "expected wad, whats the big deal, supposed to be wad".... 

how many a times did u actually bother to zoom out of your tiny little world, to see things from a third, external angle?

only then, you realized, what an irritating, unreasonable, demanding, selfish, idiot you had been to those people around you..

human, there are differences, no doubt, but please, no one is borned to please and serve another human.. no one is expected to .. unless its a paid - profession to do so..

how many times, we had friends fetching us, to places, even from your home to other destinations.. 

but .. did we ever take a serious look into such deeds? to empathize what trouble and effort they had gone through to fetch and deliver us to certain destinations?

or .. do we always brush things aside, "assuming" that everywhere is "on the way, by the way" for such friends?

and . to add on . 

when it is your turn to drive, did it cross your mind to drop them some where, to pick them from some where, even if it is not really "on the way" ?

or . petrol, trouble, time, effort, are your major concerns?

if so, why then, when it is your friends who are driving, did they not have such concerns on petrol, parking, time, effort?

what makes you soooo different from all other people?

why , only YOU can have such restrictions and concerns, and at the same time, you expect others to fetch you, to send you to some destinations, even if it is entirely out of their way?

world is never fair . is this the answer?

perhaps, then, it should be about time, that you shall also taste some of such unfairness..

friends, out of good will and perhaps, friendship, should not be too calculative over trivial things..

but when the other party is starting to calculate every single drop of petrol, every second of time and effort ... 

then, please, be prepared to "expect" the same set of formulas, criteria, and calculations to be applied onto yourself.

all of us should expect, how others are treating us, is mirrored from how we had treated them...

ask or expect treatments, that you are prepare to give to other people..

do not ask nor expect treatments, which you are not prepared to give..

no one likes to be treated as fools.